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Embracing Intimacy – The Benefits Of A Small Church Congregation!

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Hello, dear friends! Today, I want to talk about something close to my heart and undoubtedly vital for the spiritual journey of countless believers: the incredible blessings and benefits of being part of a smaller congregation. I have had the privilege of Pastoring churches of every shape and size. Every church is special and has its advantages and challenges, but today I want to take a few moments to focus on the benefits of a small church congregation. You see, in our fast-paced world where bigger often seems better, it’s easy to overlook the profound and unique advantages that smaller churches bring to the table. So, let’s dive into the wonderful world of small congregations and uncover a few of the gems hidden within these close-knit communities.

1. Authentic Community and Genuine Relationships

One of the greatest strengths of a smaller congregation is the authentic community it fosters. In a small church, you’re not just another attendee; you’re family. Relationships go beyond the surface level, creating a web of support, love, and accountability. It’s within these tight-knit communities that we find genuine friendships that last a lifetime. As Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” In a small church, you have the opportunity to truly sharpen one another in your walk with Christ. Some of my greatest growth comes from my personal one on one interaction with the church family I get to do life with.

2. Personalized Pastoral Care

In smaller congregations, pastoral care can be more personalized and attentive. The shepherd knows his sheep by name. This means that your pastor is not just a distant figure delivering sermons but a close mentor, guide, friend and often an adopted family member who understands your unique spiritual needs and challenges. Jesus modeled this kind of intimate care when He said in John 10:14, “I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me.” One of the great benefits for me as a Pastor of a small congregation is that often go with the intention of being a blessing and end up being the one blessed.

3. Everyone Has a Role to Play

One of the most beautiful aspects of small congregations is that there’s room for everyone to serve. In a smaller church, every member’s gifts and talents are recognized and utilized. This inclusivity leads to a vibrant and active church life where everyone feels valued and necessary. As 1 Corinthians 12:27 reminds us, “Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” Each person’s contribution is vital to the health and function of the church body. A small congregation may not have all the bells and whistles, but it does offer all ages the opportunity to be involved in a meaningful and productive way that gives God glory and everyone blessing.

4. Flexibility and Responsiveness

Smaller congregations have the advantage of being more flexible and responsive to the needs of their members and the community. They can quickly adapt to new ideas, implement changes, and address specific concerns without the layers of bureaucracy that can often slow down larger organizations. This agility allows for a more dynamic and relevant ministry that can effectively meet the evolving needs of the congregation and the surrounding community. A small congregation may not have all the rules and regulations in place that often hinder the spontaneous direction and guidance of the Holy Spirit, so that some of the most exciting ministry is not planned, but just happens.

5. Deeper Discipleship Opportunities

Discipleship in a smaller church can be more focused and tailored. Pastors and leaders have the capacity to mentor individuals closely, offering personalized guidance and support. This depth of discipleship helps members grow in their faith and develop a stronger, more intimate relationship with Jesus. As Paul encouraged Timothy in 2 Timothy 2:2, “And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others.” In small congregations, this passing on of wisdom and knowledge is beautifully facilitated by all ages coming together and growing through one another.

6. Intimate Worship Experiences

Worship in a smaller congregation can feel like a family gathering, creating a powerful sense of unity and intimacy. When you worship together in a close-knit setting, the presence of God feels tangible, and the collective worship becomes a shared, heartfelt experience. As Matthew 18:20 says, “For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” The simplicity and sincerity of worship in a smaller church can lead to profound spiritual encounters. It may not always be the most flashy or professional, but it comes straight from the heart and touches deep in the soul.

7. Strong Support Network

Last, but not least, smaller congregations often provide a strong support network for their members. Whether celebrating life’s milestones or facing difficult trials, the church community is there to offer love, encouragement, and practical help. This support is a tangible expression of God’s love and a beautiful demonstration of living out Galatians 6:2, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” We are better together and while we may be small in number, we are big in heart and spirit.

In conclusion, dear friends, while larger churches have their place and their own set of advantages, the blessings of a smaller congregation are deeply significant and impactful. In a smaller church, you’re not just part of a crowd; you’re part of a family. It’s in these intimate settings that we can truly experience the love, care, and support that God intends for His children. So, I encourage you to embrace the beauty of smaller congregations and let God use these close-knit communities to deepen your faith and enrich your spiritual journey.

Pastor Michael Joe Harvell – Eureka Baptist Church, Anderson South Carolina

Embracing Joy: Ten Steps To Make The Most Of The Month Of December…

The end of the year is almost here, but before the clock strikes midnight and a new year begins, we still have 31 incredible days to enjoy this amazing gift called life that we have been blessed with. December, the culminating month of the year, arrives again this year with a special charm—a time when the air is filled with the scent of festivities, our minds with reflection, and our hearts with anticipation. As the year draws to a close, it brings a multitude of opportunities to embrace the joy, spread warmth, and prepare for a fresh new beginning. Here are 8 Steps we can take to make the most of this remarkable month:

1. Embrace Festivities: December marks the pinnacle of celebration and our spirit needs some good celbration, laughter and fun . Dive into the festivities, whether it’s lighting up the menorah for Hanukkah, decorating the Christmas tree, or preparing for Kwanzaa. Engage in the celebrations of your culture as you partake in the traditional rituals, and revel in the joy of just simply being together with those you love.

2. Reflect and Reconnect: Amidst the hustle and bustle, make sure that you carve out moments for introspection. Look on the inside of yourself by reflecting on the past months, acknowledge your achievements, and contemplating areas where you need to grow. Make time to reconnect with loved ones by taking the time for gatherings, the sharing of stories, and the opportunity to relive cherished memories. December offers a perfect backdrop to nourish our connections with those that we really care about.

3. Spread Kindness: The real essence of December lies in giving. Extend acts of kindness to those around you. Volunteer your time, donate to charities, or simply lend a helping hand to someone in need. A small gesture can create an immense impact and bring warmth to someone’s heart and blessings to all around.

4. Savor the Seasonal Delights: Indulge in the flavors and aromas unique to December. Treat yourself to hot cocoa by the fireplace, relish gingerbread cookies, or try the diverse array of traditional holiday dishes. Allow your senses to revel in the culinary delights this month brings. Actually take time to enjoy the tastes of the holiday season.

5. Set Intentions for the New Year: December serves as a bridge between the old and the new. Take this time to set intentions for the upcoming year. Outline your goals, aspirations, and resolutions. Visualize the path ahead and lay the groundwork for a promising start to the new chapter. I like to think of a word that will be my word for the new year. My new year word for 2023 was FAITH and my new year word for 2024 is INFLUENCE.

6. Appreciate Nature’s Beauty: Depending on your location, December either blankets the world in snow or paints it with blossoms. Embrace the beauty of nature—go for a winter walk, admire the twinkling lights, or take in the vibrant colors of blooming flowers in the Southern Hemisphere. Connect with the natural world around you. It really is the most wonderful time of the year!

7. Practice Gratitude: Cultivate a mindset of gratitude. Acknowledge the blessings, big or small, that have enriched your life throughout the year. Keep a gratitude journal, expressing thankfulness for moments, experiences, and the presence of those who’ve made a difference in your life. I like to write down at least three things that I am thankful for everyday.

8. Pay Attention To The Spiritual: Our lives are physical, mental and spiritual. Be sure to focus on and work on the spiritual part of your life by taking time to think about the greatest gift ever give and how that gift makes your life worth living.

9. Create Lasting Traditions: Establishing traditions adds depth and meaning to the holiday season. Whether it’s baking together with family, hosting a themed gathering, or watching classic movies, these rituals foster a sense of belonging and create timeless memories. We take and make time for what really matters to us.

10. Enjoy Yourself! As December unfolds its charm, make sure that you seize the opportunity to immerse yourself in its magic. Let it be a time of joy, reflection, and preparation for the exciting prospects ahead. Embrace the festive cheer, cherish your loved ones, and welcome the new year with open arms.

Cherish Each Moment!

A few months ago, I had a stroke and did not even know I was in this world. I finally came to myself in the ICU at the hospital and my wife Joy began to tell me about my very eventful day in the Emergency Room with the Stroke Trauma Team that I knew absolutely nothing about.

In the past several months as I have worked to recover, I have learned many lessons about many things. One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned is just what a precious gift we have been given with this thing that we call life.

In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. -1 Corinthians 15:52

One of the most meaningful lessons that I am learning is the preciousness of moments and how careless and flippant I have often been with them in the past by simply taking them for granted.

The reality of this human existence is that we are not guaranteed the next moment and if we don’t get the next moment, then the last moment was it, so we better allow every moment to unfold and learn be grateful for the gifts it brings.

One day last week, I was sitting in our living room and there were toys scattered all over the place. In the middle of the floor was a wooden bowl, spatula and a little car. When I looked at them I smiled inside and out and then began to cry tears of joy as I thought about my Grand Daughter Addi Jo stirring up some “make believe” deliciousness in that bowl and then offering me a bite. I was still getting blessing and joy from the moment even after it passed.

Life is a series of moments strung together by memories, so make sure that you are cherishing each moment as the special gift from God that it is, because we never know when this moment might be our last…