I waited patiently for the Lord; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings. -Psalm 40:1-2
Alright folks, let’s take a minute to dive into Psalms 40:1-2. Now, imagine you’re in the middle of a sticky Southern summer day, stuck in traffic on I-85 with no air conditioning. You’re hot, you’re tired, and it feels like there’s no end in sight. That’s kinda what life throws at us sometimes, right? We’re knee-deep in problems, and it seems like we’re never gonna get out.
But then David steps in with a bit of wisdom. He says, “I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” Now, if that ain’t somethin’ to hold onto, I don’t know what is.
David’s tellin’ us that even when we’re stuck in life’s muck, if we wait on the Lord, He’s gonna hear us. And He won’t just listen; He’ll pull us right outta that mess and set us on solid ground. It’s like finally hittin’ a stretch of open highway after bein’ stuck in traffic—what a relief!
Life’s got a way of boggin’ us down, but God’s got a way of liftin’ us up. So next time you find yourself in a jam, remember David’s words. Be patient, keep the faith, and know that help is on the way. The Lord’s got a tow truck ready to pull you out and put you back on the road. Keep believin’, y’all…
Everyone who makes a journey into the cigar world has a different experience. For me, it was a special occasion here or there, but never really a serious pursuit. This past year, the wife of a good friend passed away and the evening after her funeral, I went to his house to see how he was doing. He was a cigar smoker and offered me one and we enjoyed a good cigar and a great conversation. Over the next couple of weeks, we would visit and share a premium cigar and meaningful conversation. Our friendship grew into brotherhood fairly quickly and I had a new hobby that has opened up a world of connections, friendships and great conversations.
It was not long after that when I ran into a phrase that describes perfectly what I had been experiencing in my cigar journey – “BROTHERHOOD OF THE LEAF”. The term “Brotherhood of the Leaf” evokes images of camaraderie, tradition, and a shared passion for the art of cigar smoking. This brotherhood transcends geographical boundaries, social classes, and even generations, uniting aficionados in their love for one of the world’s oldest and most storied indulgences: the cigar.
With that phrase in mind, I got the idea to start a group called Brotherhood Of The Leaf F3 – Faith, Fellowship, Fine Cigars, which would sponsor opportunities to get together in various locations to grow together while enjoying this very special past time.
A Brief History of Cigars
To understand the Brotherhood of the Leaf, one must first appreciate the rich history of cigar smoking. Cigars have been enjoyed for centuries, with their origins traced back to indigenous peoples in the Caribbean and Mesoamerica. The introduction of cigars to Europe by explorers like Christopher Columbus in the late 15th century sparked a global appreciation that continues to this day.
The cigar became a symbol of sophistication and leisure, often associated with important historical figures, statesmen, and celebrities. This cultural significance laid the foundation for a community bound by a common appreciation for the craftsmanship and experience of cigar smoking.
The Essence of the Brotherhood
At its core, the Brotherhood of the Leaf is about more than just smoking cigars; it is about the experience and the connections forged over a shared ritual. Members of this fraternity often gather in cigar lounges, clubs, and at special events, where they exchange stories, knowledge, and, of course, cigars. The act of lighting up a cigar becomes a ceremonial event, fostering a sense of belonging and mutual respect.
The Rituals and Traditions
One of the hallmarks of the Brotherhood of the Leaf is its rich tapestry of rituals and traditions. These rituals might include:
– Cigar Selection: The process of choosing a cigar is almost sacred. Aficionados take into consideration the origin, blend, and age of the tobacco. This selection process is often accompanied by discussions about personal preferences and the nuances of different cigars.
– Lighting Ceremony: Lighting a cigar is done with care and precision. Members often use wooden matches or cedar spills to avoid imparting unwanted flavors from gas lighters. This act is slow and deliberate, reflecting the meditative nature of cigar smoking.
– Smoking Etiquette: The etiquette of cigar smoking is respected within the brotherhood. This includes the pace at which one smokes, the manner in which the ash is managed, and the shared understanding of the communal and solitary aspects of the experience.
The Social Fabric
The Brotherhood of the Leaf is inclusive, drawing members from all walks of life. Business executives, artists, laborers, and enthusiasts all find common ground in their love for cigars. This diversity enriches the community, fostering an environment where different perspectives are appreciated and celebrated.
The Global Community
While the term “Brotherhood of the Leaf” might suggest a primarily male fraternity, the community is increasingly inclusive, with women finding their place among the ranks of cigar aficionados. Organizations and social media groups dedicated to women who enjoy cigars are growing, adding to the diversity and richness of the community.
Cigar Culture in the Modern Age
In the modern era, the Brotherhood of the Leaf has adapted to contemporary lifestyles while maintaining its core values. The digital age has enabled cigar lovers to connect through online forums, social media, and on the fly opportunities to fire up a stick together. These platforms allow members to share reviews, tips, and personal experiences, keeping the spirit of the brotherhood alive and vibrant.
It’s So Much More Than Smoking!
The Brotherhood of the Leaf is more than just a group of people who enjoy cigars; it is a testament to the enduring appeal of tradition, craftsmanship, and fellowship. In a fast-paced world, the act of smoking a cigar offers a moment to slow down and enjoy a life of reflection and connection, linking the past with the present and bringing together individuals from all walks of life. As this fraternity continues to grow and evolve, it remains a beacon of camaraderie and a celebration of one of life’s fine pleasures…
As Mark Twain once said: Be sure and smoke in moderation – one cigar at a time…
In Matthew 13, one encounters the insightful Parable of the Sower and the Soils, a teaching by Jesus that delves into the diverse conditions of human hearts through the metaphor of four soils. Each soil represents a unique response to the (Seed/Word) message of God, offering profound insights into the spiritual journey.
“The same day went Jesus out of the house, and sat by the sea side. 2 And great multitudes were gathered together unto him, so that he went into a ship, and sat; and the whole multitude stood on the shore. 3 And he spake many things unto them in parables, saying, Behold, a sower went forth to sow; 4 And when he sowed, some seeds fell by the way side, and the fowls came and devoured them up: 5 Some fell upon stony places, where they had not much earth: and forthwith they sprung up, because they had no deepness of earth: 6 And when the sun was up, they were scorched; and because they had no root, they withered away. 7 And some fell among thorns; and the thorns sprung up, and choked them: 8 But other fell into good ground, and brought forth fruit, some an hundredfold, some sixtyfold, some thirtyfold. 9 Who hath ears to hear, let him hear.” -Matthew 13:1-9
The wayside, the first soil, signifies hearts hardened and unreceptive. Just as a path is trampled, these individuals allow external influences to hinder the growth of spiritual seeds. The challenge lies in breaking through this hardness to cultivate a fertile ground for transformation.
Moving to the stony places, the second soil illustrates hearts with initial enthusiasm but lacking depth. Like shallow soil covering bedrock, these individuals may receive the word joyfully but struggle to sustain their faith in the face of trials. It serves as a reminder that genuine spiritual growth requires depth and endurance.
The third soil, filled with thorns, symbolizes hearts entangled by worldly concerns. The distractions of life—worries, money, ego and other preoccupations—choke the growth of spiritual seeds. This soil urges reflection on the importance of cultivating a heart free from the entanglements that hinder spiritual flourishing.
Finally, the fourth soil represents the receptive heart—the good ground. Here, seeds find fertile soil, yielding a bountiful harvest. This soil teaches us about the openness, humility, and readiness required to embrace and internalize the teachings of God. It encourages us to nurture a heart that bears the fruit of faith and righteousness.
In conclusion, the Parable of the Four Soils in Matthew 13 serves as a timeless guide for self-reflection and spiritual growth. It prompts us to examine the condition of our hearts and encourages the cultivation of receptivity, depth, and resilience in our journey towards a fruitful and flourishing faith. In other words: Get your heart right and everything else will begin to fall into place!
Michael Joe Harvell 