When we lean solely on self-reliance, we might think we’re becoming stronger, but often we’re actually making ourselves weaker, and here’s why: humans weren’t made to carry everything alone.

Our spirit’s true power is not found in isolation, but in connection. There’s a spiritual richness that grows only when we open ourselves up to others.

 We’re like a river that needs tributaries; without them, it runs dry. We’re meant to do life together, filling each other’s cups and helping bear each other’s burdens.

Our stubborn insistence on “going it alone” is just a fool’s errand.

So tonight, if you’re feeling weighed down, remember—it’s not a sign of weakness to lean on those around you. It’s wisdom. Let yourself rest in the strength of community, and you’ll find yourself feeling healthier, fuller, and a whole lot more at peace